Veeder: Community moves to building a future for our families
It's been more than five years since my husband and I unloaded our hand-me-down furniture into the little brown ranch house in the barnyard where my dad grew up, fulfilling our dream of moving home, because unlike the economy the two of us grew up in during the '80s and '90s, there were jobs.
Everyone talks about how the oil boom seemed to happen overnight, but when you're living among it, that sense of immediacy is only partially true.
It's hard to explain the feeling of "what-if" that sits alongside "could it be true?" in your mind as you wonder about the alleged oil well that promises to pop up on the hill behind the house.
It seems like it could never happen, until one day you wake up and there it is.
That's how it's been for the past five years around here in western North Dakota. Not believing and then believing — that there would be a stoplight in town, a four-lane highway to Williston, a fast-food restaurant, a brand new high school, dozens of new apartment buildings and so on and so on until you find yourself used to the stoplights, sushi and Southern accents surrounding you.
The "if you build it they will come" mentality wasn't as much the case here in this once 1,200-person town. No, it was more of the "they have come so let's do what we can to make it work better."
And so we made time for the extra traffic, the long lines and construction detours, and have come to expect events and restaurants filled to capacity with people of all ages, races and backgrounds, our new little melting pot on the western edge of the state.
We knew it would slow down eventually, that the four new hotels that were built wouldn't be filled to the brim every week with working residents, and instead we would have to find a way to fill them with guests.
We knew that we wouldn't always have to make reservations for supper.
We knew that oil wouldn't stay at $100 a barrel, and that we might get a chance to take a breath someday and catch up, even though the thought was both terrifying and relieving.
Because we knew what it was like to have our quiet and slow life interrupted, but maybe we didn't realize how quickly we could get used to a new normal, a fast pace of planning hectic moment to hectic moment.
But that hectic moment has slowed for a bit now and, as oil prices have slid, adjustments have been made.
Is the boom over?
That's a question every news source and coffee conversation wants answered.
I'm not sure if anyone knows. Just like nobody seemed to know exactly what was coming five years ago. I read a different dramatic report, opinion and prediction every day.
But here's what I know to be true for us: Oil prices have changed, but the sense of "what-if" coupled with "could it be true?" has not.
We have never settled into a sense of security in such fast-paced growth. Instead, we have remained committed to keep steady in our own plan to figure out how to stay here at the family's ranch for the long run.
And I'll tell you, it's been much easier with better jobs and more opportunity at our fingertips. But along with that, for whatever challenges we continue to face, what our community has become in the wake of the boom has made this an easier and exciting place to live in many ways.
And for that we have been grateful.
I think that realization might be the case for most people who, after coming here for the work, have decided to make this place their permanent home now. Because of the jobs, yes, but also because, like us, they see a future here.
And it's because of those people it seems our new population is remaining more steady than predicted. Yes, people are losing jobs and families are moving away, but businesses are also still hiring and new residents still seem to see the value in a community that has moved from building to keep up with the present into building for a future we want for our families.
Jessie Veeder is a musician and writer living with her husband and daughter on a ranch near Watford City, N.D. Readers can reach her at firstname.lastname@example.org.